The tyranny of self actualisation

Recently I was having a conversation with a client about ‘enough’ and what it would look like in his working life as a newly-appointed leader in an organisation undergoing a wholesale restructure.  This is a tough ask in an environment where it feels as if...

The superhero leader – or is he?

I made my holiday read a translation of the Odyssey.*  It’d been sitting unread on my bookshelf for 30 years and I was determined to form my own opinion before watching the film.   Here is one of many thoughts: Notwithstanding arguments about translations, I...

Can you change your personality?

I sometimes have the sense that a client who is new to coaching is secretly hoping that I will help them change their personality. As if their current typical patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving need to be replaced by different ones.  It can be a surprise to...

Don’t do it!

I nearly mowed down some daisies last week in my hurry to get on.  The act of pausing, deciding and mowing round them produced in me a rush of exhilaration from this tiny act of rebellion.  It was a vote for what seemed important. It reminds me of the...

Beware! Role model alert!

Recently a client pointed out that, in a quest to become great at speaking in front of audiences large and small, he had studied business people who are outstanding at delivering a high impact message.  In our work together, however, he has come to realise that...

Talking ‘live’ is a radical act

Eat your heart out, Nancy Kline*. In conversation with a senior executive client this week we unpacked the personal power of the leader who picks up the phone for a brief call, even if it’s just a ‘Go ahead, you can do this!’ permission or...